Got girlfriend pregnant?

im not here to preach to you but i was 16 when i got pregnant with my son! i was scared out of my mind and didnt no what to do. abortion was out of the picture for me though, i took on the responsibility of having and i was going to do the right thing, i kept telling myself that everything will be ok. it wasnt the babys fault it was mine. i wouldnt recommend raising a baby that young bec it is very hard! but i think yall should look at your options. there is always adoption so many ppl want to have a baby and cant. i no you dont want to tell your parents i didnt either but i did. and i have a 4 yr old that i love and wouldnt trade for the world. but nothing is going to get rid of the baby without having a abortion if she drinks all it will do is make the baby abnormal. cafiene will do nothing. of you are going to do a abortion then you need to do it asap. a baby gets a heart beat at 8 weeks. good luck to yall and just take some time to think about your decision and good luck to both of yall. she wouldnt have to have surgery all she had to do is go to the health depertment and ask what she needs to do.