I've become terrified of women.?

You're not afraid of women. You just lost faith in finding a decent woman. The problem maybe who you're attracting into your life. I think you're attracted to a certain type of girls, those that seem to manipulate men. Stop looking in all the wrong places. This means stop trolling the bars and nightclubs for a girl. But if you are looking for a one-night stand or someone to have a little fun with, then by all means go ahead and meet girls there. Spend some time in your local library to scope out the scene there. Once you see the type of women that hang out there, make your move and approach some of them. Just try not to come off as a creep who has been hanging out at the library to hit on women.Check out your local bookstore. The bookstore will usually have women there who are checking out books. By looking at the types of books and the titles of the books, you can see what type of girl she is.Head over to your church if you are active in any church. Usually women who attend church have some set of morals and standards that they keep to. This bodes well for you since you are almost guaranteed that they are a good girl. These guidelines are not an exact science, but if you stick to them, you will have a better chance at landing the good girl you can take home to your parents.