Why do men be no thinking?

When my family behave like them I would go on strike meaning I would only do things for myself and if I felt like it I would do things for my hubby that means no cooking fir any one but myself and if my kids can only cook soup the so be it if they had no clean clothes then so be it and then they will start to appreciate the things that I do.(I would buy them an alarm clock so they have to get up on their own so be it but very softly I would remind them so I don't have them home from school they learn ed fast granted I had to go on struck more often then I wanted to but by the time they grew up they realized that I actually worked